Have you ever thought you can drive someone away!!

Have you ever thought why a partner, a friend, or a colleague distances himself/herself from you?

Why he/she prefers to go along without you?

What will you do, if someone left you and doesn't want to hear from you?

Will you call this person a traitor or bad or unfair person?

Will you pity yourself and feel you are a victim of a heartless person?

Would you stop for a while before throwing your excuses on how this or that person left you without explanation?

Would you have the guts to confront yourself?!!!

Have you taken this person for granted?

Have you always believed he/she will be at your command anytime?

Have you hurt him/her before?

Have you talked?

After talking, have you repeated all the things that upset this person before, giving yourself the excuse that you are different, he/she must accept that?

Have you tried to avoid upsetting this person, since you know what he/she is sensitive to?

Have you noticed you hurt that person and continued on hurting him/her?

Have you believed that whenever you would like to talk and explain, this person will always listen and understand?

Haven't you ever thought that at one point, it might be too late to explain?

Have you really cared for this person the way he/she cared for you?

Have you always put yourself first even in the smallest things?

Have you always depended on letting this person be the one who asks you about what bothers you?

Have you ever cared to ask this person what bothers him/her?

Have you ever thought that at one point this person will be bored of his/her feelings being ignored?

Have you ever thought how this person cared for you and helped you?

Have you noticed how you frowned at that person while you smiled at the others?

Have you ever realized how cruel you were?

Have you ever thought WHY this person left you though it is not a nature in him/her to give up?

Have you ever thought WHY your pleading to this person is no more effective?

Think, think, think.......

If you lost one person, you may not have him/her back.

However, make it your mission not lose another; one that you really care for.